Finding Properties That Match Your Dreams (Not Just Your Budget)
Welcome to the fun part, queen. This is where those late-night Pinterest boards become real possibilities. Where you stop window shopping and start power shopping. Where you go from "I wish" to "I'm choosing."
But let me tell you something before you start clicking through listings: Looking for homes the Own It Gyrl way isn't like what everyone else does. We don't just search for houses—we search for opportunities.
First, let's destroy the biggest lie about home shopping: that you should only look at what fits your current budget.
Can add $10,000-50,000 to your buying power
Can lower your monthly payment by hundreds
Can cover your closing costs
Is just where negotiations begin
What you can "afford" and what you can actually buy are two very different numbers.
And we're about to show you how to shop in your real range—the one that includes all the money and programs you didn't know were available.
(Even If It's Your First)
Every property you look at should be evaluated through three lenses:
Will this home nurture your family? Does it have the space for your life to unfold beautifully? Can you see yourself hosting Sunday dinners here? Will your children thrive here? Does it feel like a place where you can exhale?
Will this property appreciate? Is it in an improving neighborhood? Could you rent it out if you needed to? Does it have features that will always be in demand? Could this be the first of many properties you own?
Is this a property your children would be proud to inherit? Will it anchor your family in a community that's growing? Does it position you for your next moves? Is this a foundation worth building on?
When you find a property that works through all three lenses? That's when you know you've found gold.
This isn't casual browsing—this is strategic acquisition.
When you're looking at properties, ask these questions that most buyers never think to ask:
"How long has it been on the market?" (Longer = more negotiable)
"Have there been any price reductions?" (Shows seller flexibility)
"Why are they selling?" (Motivation reveals opportunity)
"What offers have been rejected?" (Know what doesn't work)
"What's included in the sale?" (Appliances, fixtures, furniture?)
"What development is planned nearby?" (Future value indicators)
"Are there any special financing programs here?" (Hidden money)
"What sold recently and for how much?" (Real market values)
"What are the typical utility costs?" (Real monthly expenses)
"Is there an HOA and what does it really cover?" (Hidden costs/benefits)
"Would the seller consider owner financing?" (Alternative purchase options)
"Are they willing to cover closing costs?" (Less money needed upfront)
"Can we close on my timeline?" (Flexibility is valuable)
"Would they sell any furniture/appliances separately?" (Turnkey opportunity)
"Is there room for negotiation if we close quickly?" (Speed = savings)
You'll know. It might not be perfect, but it will feel possible. It will check your major boxes and excite you about the potential. You'll see your life unfolding there. The numbers will work.
When that happens, move fast but smart. Have your team ready. Know your offer strategy. Be prepared to compete but not overpay.
Remember: The property you're looking for is also looking for you. It's out there waiting for an owner who will love it, improve it, and build wealth with it.
That owner is you.
The home that will change your life is out there. The property that will start your empire is waiting. The investment that will fund your dreams is listed right now.
But you're not just looking for a house. You're looking for your launching pad to wealth. Your foundation for the future. Your family's next chapter.
Search like the queen you are. Look with vision, not just eyesight. Shop with strategy, not just hope.
"Don't just look for a house. Look for an opportunity. Don't just search for somewhere to live. Search for something to build wealth with. The right property isn't just out there—it's waiting for you to claim it."
- Samantha Porter